This study takes a broad look at the effects of a soldier's post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) symptomology on the dependent spouse, including anger, emotional distancing, and sleep disturbances a discussed by the participants. Domestic violence in the relationship was suggested to be one of the major factors in the participant's decision-making process. This study can be used as a first step in the development of programs aimed at maintaining family unity as well as increasing the safety of family members. This study is designed to investigate feelings, experiences, and major decisions military dependent spouses make when their Army soldier returns from Iraq and/or Afganistan with PTSD. This study uses qualitative methodology to obtain rich descriptions of the feelings and experiences of military dependants due to the soldier’s PTSD symptomology. This study is meant to give other researchers a foundation upon which to create treatment methods that will benefit the Army community.