This study utilizes the ethnographic approach to study a small group of Asian/Asian-American lesbians in Austin, TX. In this examination, three major identities, gender, sexuality, and ethnicity are present in their daily lives both in the mainstream society and Austin's lesbian community. Through interactions between the researcher and subjects, the subject's point of view emerged concerning ethnicity, gender roles, and sexual orientation. Each individual had their own specific way of presenting themselves. Their similar ethnic background enabled individuals in this group to form a special bond within the wider Austin lesbian community and the local lesbian network "Foodies." In this case, their living experiences offered an alternative representation different from mainstream queer theory. Even within this group, the intersections and interactions of various identities and bonds are not always congruous. Internal conflicts involving personal identities and external conflicts concerning the group structure and the lesbian community were perceived and are addressed in the research.